People always interrogates themselves with the most asked question. Why am I not like him? or why am I not like her?
You can classify this type of question yourself. We do not take time for them to mentor us into their fields so we just conclude God did not create us well to which we are wrong with that judgement because that is not the case.
Imagine yourself being in the shoes of that person should the person be a rich man for instance. Yes, you just imagined yourself being at the club, buying new properties each day and also being in the news always for recognition of a great man status.
Yes, life would be so beautiful, you just giggled right? Indeed, life would be dream fulfilling.
But are you sure the person thinks the way you are thinking? You might say yes because as you follow them on all social media platforms it affirms what you thought about them, but what you did not consider is will Bill Gates ever teach you what keeps him in that status? Never, because as soon as he does that what do you think will happen to him in the near future.
Wait do you take into consideration what made him become who he is today? No. Most of who we wish to be like them tell their stories on interviews and that is true they passed in all those they have said but some of which are even lies.
You were motivated by their stories to which you said to yourself you would want to become like them through following that same path he passed through.
Imagine yourself in that position if you did not know that person’s story. To be honest to yourself what would have happened to you. Most of you would have failed.
It is good to mentor them if you want to like them one day but do not tell yourself you would do exactly what they did to be like them because you may fail or lose yourself alongside this is because what made them become who they are now would not make you become like them. At times make sure you are the first but not the second version.
